英语social如何聊出质量

和外国人聊三句就没话题？谈资老套、聊不出质量？学自然、有质量的英语交流方法！跟外国人社交聊什么？

Do you run out of things to talk about or always talk about superficial topics?
你是否聊着聊着没话题，或者只能聊些很浅的内容？

英语聊天，主要靠：
Daily learning （日常累积）：英语＋文化
Practical approach （实际步骤）：选择切入点＋适当扩展

How do you strike up conversations naturally with people whom you just met?
如何跟刚认识的人自然地开启话题？

Don't memorize fixed things to say to people. That's one of the reasons your conversations are very stale and limited. Learn a useful train of thought or flow of logic.
不要像背稿子一样死记硬背，那样的话，你聊的内容总是很老套、很局限，掌握一些实用的谈话逻辑。

Talk about yourself: who you're, where you're from… Build on the conversation.
总结：初次见面，聊天很简单，从自己谈起！但是别两句话结束, 多扩展一些.

“What's your name?”听起来像小学生，怎么问？

例如：Hi, I'm Jenny, and you are? 其实对方在听了你的名字后，基本上会自然地告诉你他／她的名字。

除了 "What's your job?" 如何谈工作？

如果你已经知道对方工作的行业（industry specific），可以这么问：
What company are you with？

如果你什么都不知道，那么可以这么问：
What do you do for a living?
What kind of work do you do?

"Where are you from?"每个地方都有丰富的故事

People like to know that you're knowledgeable of where they come from.
人们喜欢你知道一些他家乡的事。
I can meet someone from practically any corner of the world.
我会遇到从世界各地来的人。
Some little tidbit or some little piece of information I can throw out at them. They will feel: Wow, you know where I'm from!
我说一点跟他们家乡有意思的小事情，他们都会觉得：哇，你知道那里！
It will lead to very interesting and meaningful exchange.
这会让对话变得有意思，而且有意义。

Wrap up a conversation gracefully. 怎么自然地结束谈话？

结束谈话，用下面三个步骤：

1. 释放结束信号（Signal）
It's been really nice meeting you.
It's been a pleasure meeting you.
It's been very nice talking to you.

2. 交换联络方式 （exchange contact information）
Let's keep in touch.
Are you on WeChat?
Do you have a card?

3. 后说 （Enjoy...）
Enjoy the rest of ________.
Enjoy the rest of the/your day.
Enjoy the rest of the/your stay.
Enjoy the rest of the/your evening.

这些实用聊天技巧，大家以后用起来吧！有质量的英语交流，一定要靠平时累积。